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Before participating in this discussion board, please be sure to view and listen to the lecture, as well as complete this week's reading. For our week two discussion board, please answer the following: 2. Think of an example of how one, two or all three components of The Self impact an interpersonal relationship that we see in television or in a movie. Feel free to include a link to assist you in your explanation of it. Example: Ross' insecurities around Rachel's relationship with Mark in season three of Friends. Please do not now use this example. 3. What listening style(s) do you identify with most? Why do you think that is? Please do not disclose any information you are uncomfortable with disclosing.

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The study of the self and its components plays a crucial role in understanding interpersonal relationships. In media portrayals such as television and movies, characters' inherent self-perceptions, self-esteem, and identity significantly influence their interactions and relationships with others. These components of The Self help elucidate why characters behave in certain ways and how their internal states affect their external relationships.

One prime example illustrating the impact of The Self on interpersonal relationships is seen in the television series "Breaking Bad." The protagonist, Walter White, grapples with his identity as a high school chemistry teacher, a family man, and a drug manufacturer. His sense of self—particularly his self-esteem and perceived identity—drives his decisions and interactions. For instance, Walter's transformation from a meek teacher to a confident, albeit morally compromised, drug kingpin reflects shifts in his self-concept. His sense of inadequacy as a provider and his desire for respect propel him to engage in increasingly risky behaviors, deeply affecting his relationships with his wife, Jesse Pinkman, and others (Guggenheim, 2008).

Similarly, the social identity theory suggests that individuals’ group membership and the associated self-concept can influence their interpersonal dynamics. In the movie "The Social Network," Mark Zuckerberg's sense of self as a brilliant innovator and outsider influences his relationships with friends, colleagues, and partners. His self-perception affects his interactions, often leading to conflicts, betrayals, and power struggles, emphasizing how self-image can shape interpersonal behavior (DeVito, 2010).

The three components of The Self—self-concept, self-esteem, and identity—interact to influence how individuals interpret social situations and engage with others. When these elements are aligned positively, individuals are more confident, open, and empathetic. Conversely, discrepancies or negative perceptions can lead to insecurity, defensiveness, and strained relationships. For example, in the film "Silver Linings Playbook," Pat’s unstable self-concept and low self-esteem hinder his ability to build healthy relationships. His journey toward self-acceptance allows him to foster genuine connections, illustrating the importance of a cohesive self (Foster, 2012).

Moving from media examples to personal reflection, understanding one's own listening style can offer further insights into interpersonal efficacy. Common listening styles include empathetic listening, critical listening, and reflective listening. Personally, I identify most with empathetic listening, which involves genuinely understanding and sharing the feelings of the speaker. I believe this stems from a desire to foster connection and demonstrate genuine concern, which promotes trust and openness in relationships. Empathetic listening allows me to better understand others' perspectives and respond with compassion, essential qualities for healthy communication.

In conclusion, the components of The Self significantly impact interpersonal relationships, both in media portrayals and real life. Media examples such as "Breaking Bad," "The Social Network," and "Silver Linings Playbook" vividly illustrate how self-perceptions influence behavior and interactions. Additionally, awareness of one's listening style enhances communication skills, fostering more meaningful and empathetic connections. Recognizing the internal factors that drive behavior helps us better understand ourselves and others, ultimately improving our interpersonal experiences.

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