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Compare marriage, divorce, being single, and widowhood in late adulthood. Instructions: 1. Interview someone in your family who represents the concept of wisdom 2. Use the attached set of questions. 3. Next, write one to three paragraphs and include the following: o Why is this person a good example of wisdom? o What advice or nugget of wisdom can you share? o Is there a difference in marriage, remaining single, and divorce now compared to the lifetime of the person you interviewed? Interview questions Discussion 10.docx Download Interview questions Discussion 10.docx Your response on the Discussion Board should be well thought out and a minimum of 3 paragraphs. Read one of your classmate's posting and respond. This assignment does not require citation or references. You may upload a slide show presentation such as Power Point or Prezi, you may upload a Word document, or you may use an audio or video link.

Paper For Above instruction

In exploring the themes of marriage, divorce, being single, and widowhood in late adulthood, it is essential to consider the insights and experiences of individuals who have navigated these transitions. For this discussion, I interviewed my grandmother, who has lived through multiple life stages, witnessing and experiencing changes in societal attitudes and personal circumstances concerning relationships and aging. Her reflections provide valuable perspectives on wisdom, societal shifts, and personal growth, making her an exemplary figure of wisdom in our family.

My grandmother exemplifies wisdom through her resilience, adaptability, and the ability to find meaning in life's transitions. Throughout her life, she experienced marriage, divorce, widowhood, and periods of being single, each shaping her understanding of relationships. She emphasizes that genuine wisdom involves accepting life’s inevitable changes with grace and maintaining a positive outlook despite challenges. She often advises younger generations to prioritize emotional well-being and authenticity over societal expectations regarding marriage and relationships. Her insight that “true happiness comes from understanding oneself, not from external relationships” resonates deeply and encapsulates her approach to aging and personal fulfillment.

In comparing her experiences with today's societal context, my grandmother notes significant differences in how marriage and divorce are perceived and approached. She remarks that in her youth, marriage was often prioritized as a societal norm, whereas now, many opt to remain single or delay marriage for personal or career reasons. Divorce, once stigmatized, has become more accepted, providing individuals with the freedom to seek personal happiness even after marital breakdowns. The rate of being single in late adulthood has increased, partly due to changing gender roles and increased life expectancy. While she acknowledges these shifts, she stresses that the core values of love, respect, and personal growth remain central regardless of societal trends. Her perspective underscores the importance of adapting to societal changes while maintaining individual integrity and happiness in later years.

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