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From Student Aa Briefly Describe The Person And Be Sure To Respect

From student: A.A • Briefly describe the person (and be sure to respect confidentiality of others and, as always, remember to be respectful of potentially sensitive information, and remember there is no guarantee of privacy). I am going to write about my died brother. My brother was age of nine when he died. His death hurt a lot of people. When he passed away, we did not travel to village in Nigeria that Christmas day.

We stayed home to mourn him. He was everything to my mom. She loved him so much. He is the one that clean the house, help my mom in the kitchen and wash my dad’s car. My senior brother was jealous of him because he was my mom’s favorite.

My senior brother always fights and argue with him. One day, they were arguing over my senior brother’s shoe. My senior brother accused him of stealing his shoe, he told him that he did not steal his shoes and that was what started the fight, so my mother ask our neighbor to take my brother that died to spent holiday with them, and they agreed and he followed our neighbor to their village. In the next two weeks, our neighbor came back from the village very early without my brother, we were worried and asked them about him. They told my parents that he is died, he was pushed inside the water by their maid, and he does not know how to swim, so he drowned.

I hated their maid and every time I saw her, I wanted to do something bad to her, but I do not have the mind to do that. I was mad at my senior brother for fighting over a shoe. I did not speak to him for days. Everyone said that I looked like my died brother and act like him. I was three when my brother died and I do the thing he used to do, like cleaning the house, helping my mom to cook.

Being my mom second favorite. Sometimes I wish I see him very well because I was only 3 years when he died and I did not know much about him like my sister and my senior brother did. • Describe the person's significant upward or downward mobility over the past three or four generations. I wish my brother is here to celebrate my coming birthday with me. He has not celebrated my 23 years of birthday with me. I want to see how he will look like now. Whether I look exactly like him like what people said. He past is generation to me because I do everything he does. How he talks and do his stuff. I promised to make my future bright, for him to be proud of his baby sister. • How do you think the person's values and behavior might differ had the person experienced the opposite pattern of mobility? My brother person’s values and behavior has not changed because if he is not died, he will continue with it. He is very humble and generous. • How might experiences have been different had the person's family been of a different ethnic or racial origin? My mother is acting different because of his died. My mother does not like to see river water, touch it or be close to it. She is afraid of water. She always said that this is what killed her baby. If somebody lost their child, she will come to the person parent’s home and sympathy with them, tell them her story. Please share whether social mobility is the exception or the rule. Please review the link below and answer what you think and why? Social mobility "the movement of individuals or groups from one level in a stratification system to another. This movement can be either upward or downward" (Kendall, 2018, pg. 192). Social mobility is an "exception of upward social mobility is deeply rooted in U.S. culture" (Macionis, 2019, pg. 264). Reference: Kendall, D. E. (2018). Sociology in our times: The essentials. Boston MA: Cengage Learning. Macionis, J. J. (2019). Society: The basics. NY, NY: Pearson.

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Introduction

Reflecting on personal experiences with family members, especially those who have passed away, offers profound insights into the themes of social mobility, cultural values, and familial bonds. This paper explores the life and legacy of my younger brother, whose untimely death at the age of nine has left an indelible mark on my family and perspectives on social stratification. Through this narrative, I analyze the implications of his life and death on our family dynamics, cultural perceptions, and broader societal patterns.

Personal Description and Reflection

My brother was a vibrant, caring child whose presence brought joy and purpose to our family. He was responsible beyond his years, engaging in chores such as cleaning the house, helping my mother cook, and assisting with household tasks. His role within our family underscored traditional values of responsibility and filial devotion, which are prevalent in many Nigerian households. His death, caused by drowning under suspicious circumstances involving the maid, shocked everyone and shifted family dynamics considerably.

The grief process was complicated by feelings of anger and resentment towards the maid, whom I hated for her involvement. I also struggled with anger towards my elder brother, whose jealousy and fighting over a pair of shoes led to the initial conflict. My early age—only three when he died—meant that my memories of him are limited but deeply ingrained in my behavior and identity. Others have noted that I resemble him physically and in mannerisms, which makes me feel connected to him even though I never knew him fully.

Family and Cultural Impact

The loss of my brother profoundly influenced my family's emotional state and behavior. My mother, who adored him, became more emotionally distant, particularly avoiding water or anything related to water, fearing it could trigger her grief as she blames it for her child's death. Her empathetic nature also makes her more compassionate and sympathetic to others experiencing loss, often sharing her story as a form of solace for grieving families.

In terms of social mobility, my family’s experience exemplifies downward mobility, where tragic personal loss can hinder upward social and economic progress. Despite the potential for resilience, the emotional toll often results in stagnation or regression, especially in traditional settings where the loss of a child impacts not just the immediate family but the entire social standing.

Perceptions of Social Mobility

When evaluating social mobility—defined as the movement of individuals or groups within a stratification system—my family’s story highlights how significant life events can disrupt upward mobility. While society often emphasizes the possibility of upward change, personal tragedies frequently result in downward or stagnated mobility, as emotional and financial resources are diverted to coping with loss. According to Kendall (2018), social mobility entails movement across stratification levels, which can be upward or downward. Macionis (2019) suggests that upward mobility is deeply rooted in American culture; however, in contexts like Nigeria, significant personal losses may often impede social progress, demonstrating that upward mobility is not always the default or guaranteed trajectory.

Contrasting Values and Behaviors

If my brother had not died, his values and behavior might have evolved differently, but his innate humility and generosity likely would have remained. The tragedy preserved certain qualities in him, such as innocence and kindness, which continue to influence my own aspirations and actions. Had he survived and grown older, societal expectations and personal experiences might have shaped his worldview differently, potentially fostering different perspectives on success, responsibility, and social engagement.

Cultural and Racial Variations

The family's ethnic and racial backgrounds significantly influence perceptions of grief, coping mechanisms, and behavioral responses. For instance, my mother’s avoidance of water is rooted in her cultural and personal trauma, illustrating how ethnicity and cultural values shape emotional reactions. In different racial or ethnic contexts, coping strategies may vary; some cultures emphasize collective mourning and communal support, while others promote individual resilience. These variations underscore that cultural background profoundly affects individual experiences of loss and social mobility.

Social Mobility: Exception or Rule?

Social mobility theory indicates that while upward mobility is often celebrated, it is an exception rather than the norm. Kendall (2018) states that mobility involves shifts in stratification, but barriers such as economic hardship, social class, and personal tragedies impede upward movement for many. Macionis (2019) emphasizes that upward mobility is deeply ingrained in American culture, yet for many marginalized groups worldwide, stagnation or downward mobility is more prevalent. Therefore, social mobility remains a complex phenomenon, heavily influenced by individual circumstances, cultural norms, and systemic structures.

Conclusion

My family’s experience illustrates that personal tragedy can significantly influence social mobility and family dynamics. While the loss of my brother has created emotional and cultural scars, it also underscores the resilience and enduring bonds within our family. Recognizing the variability and complexity of social mobility helps us understand that upward movement is not guaranteed, and personal loss can often serve as a barrier. Nevertheless, hope, resilience, and cultural values continue to motivate families and individuals to strive for better futures despite setbacks.

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