In His Song By This Name Country Singer And Songwriter Brad
In his song by this name, country singer and songwriter Brad Paisley W
In his song by this name, country singer and songwriter Brad Paisley writes his childhood self a letter, giving the little guy some pieces of advice based on experience. Remember the assignment you completed during the first week of this course? You were asked to explore the first time you remember resolving a dilemma in terms of right versus wrong. This week, as we wrap up the session, please revisit that assignment. You are now an adult speaking with the child you were, with the benefit of all of your hard-won wisdom between then and now.
In a short (one-to-two page), informal letter using your Week 1 Assignment's childhood dilemma as a starting point, please tell the child you were what would've helped you then that you know now. Maybe it's a lot. Maybe it's not much at all. This is not a research-based essay, as you've already spent the past 7 weeks using philosophers and course concepts as support. This one is all you.
Be the adult you wish you'd had on your side (or if all went well, maybe be like the one you did have on your side), and take your offering of advice about right and wrong as seriously as you would if you were offering it to an actual living child. It would be a good idea to consult the personal system of ethics you worked on for the discussion last week as you go, to make sure you haven't missed anything from your own heart and mind that would help. There's an old saying that you know you really know something when you can teach it. Congratulations!
Paper For Above instruction
Dear Young Me,
I remember that moment from childhood when I faced a dilemma—deciding whether to tell the truth about something that could hurt someone or to stay silent to avoid causing pain. At that age, my instinct was to protect myself or to avoid trouble, but with the wisdom I've gained over the years, I want to share some thoughts that might have made that decision easier and more aligned with my understanding of right and wrong.
First, I want to tell you that honesty is a foundation of integrity and trust. Although it might seem easier or safer to hide the truth at times, I’ve realized that honesty builds stronger relationships and gives you peace of mind. When you tell the truth, even when it’s difficult, you respect others and yourself. This aligns with the principle of respect for persons, which my personal ethical system emphasizes. Respecting others means valuing their right to know the truth, which ultimately helps in building trust and mutual understanding.
Second, I wish I had understood that making mistakes is part of learning. Sometimes, telling the truth might hurt temporarily, but it prevents bigger problems later. For example, if I had been more honest about a mistake I made, I could have learned from it sooner and avoided greater difficulties down the line. The ethical value of responsibility reminds us that owning up to our actions is essential for growth. Learning from mistakes and accepting responsibility fosters maturity and honesty.
Moreover, I want to assure you that it’s okay to feel scared or unsure. Courage isn’t the absence of fear but acting despite it. The personal ethics I adhere to emphasize courage as a virtue—doing what’s right even when it’s uncomfortable. Being brave enough to tell the truth shows strength, not weakness. Over time, I’ve learned that truth-telling often leads to relief and liberation from guilt, as opposed to the anxiety of hiding something.
Another vital lesson is compassion. When deciding whether to share the truth, consider how your actions affect others’ feelings. Approaching honesty with kindness creates a safe space for honest communication. Empathy and compassion are core to my ethical perspective, guiding me to be truthful while also being gentle and understanding. This balance is crucial, especially with sensitive topics.
Finally, I would tell my younger self to trust your intuition and moral compass. Often, your inner voice knows what is right, even when others might pressure you otherwise. Developing your capacity to listen to that voice and act accordingly is part of growing into a moral, ethical person. As I’ve matured, I realize that staying true to your values is the most important guiding principle.
In summary, if I could go back in time, I’d tell myself that honesty, responsibility, courage, compassion, and trust in my own moral sense are the keys to resolving dilemmas about right and wrong. These principles have helped me navigate many challenges more confidently and with integrity. Remember, each choice you make shapes the person you become, so choose wisely and stay true to your heart.
With affection and hope for your growth,
Your Future Self
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