My Father Thomas Jefferson I Knew More Of His Domestic Life

Of My Father Thomas Jefferson I Knew More Of His Domestic Than His P

Of my father, Thomas Jefferson, I knew more of his domestic than his public life during his lifetime. It is only since his death that I have learned much of the latter, except that he was considered a foremost man in the land, and held many important trusts, including that of President. I learned to read by inducing the white children to teach me the letters and something more; what else I know of books I have picked up here and there till now I can read and write. I was almost 21 1/ 2 years of age when my father died on the 4th of July, 1826. About his own home he was the quietest of men. He was hardly ever known to get angry, though sometimes he was irritated when matters went wrong, but even then he hardly ever allowed himself to be made unhappy any great length of time. Unlike Washington he had but little taste or care for agricultural pursuits. He left matters pertaining to his plantations mostly with his stewards and overseers. He always had mechanics at work for him, such as carpenters, blacksmiths, shoemakers, coopers, It was his mechanics he seemed mostly to direct, and in their operations he took great interest. Almost every day of his later years he might have been seen among them. He occupied much of the time in his office engaged in correspondence and reading and writing. His general temperament was smooth and even; he was very undemonstrative. He was uniformly kind to all about him. He was not in the habit of showing partiality or fatherly affection to us children. We were the only children of his by a slave woman. He was affectionate toward his white grandchildren, of whom he had fourteen, twelve of whom lived to manhood and womanhood. His daughter Martha married Thomas Mann Randolph by whom she had thirteen children. Two died in infancy. The names of the living were Ann, Thomas Jefferson, Ellen, Cornelia, Virginia, Mary, James, Benj. Franklin, Lewis Madison, Septemia and Geo. Wythe. . . . Maria married John Epps, and raised one son— Francis. My father generally enjoyed excellent health. I never knew him to have but one spell of sickness, and that was caused by a visit to the Warm Springs in 1818.Till within three weeks of his death he was hale and hearty, and at the age of 3 years walked erect and with a stately tread. I am now 68, and I well remember that he was a much smarter man physically, even at that age, than I am. When I was fourteen years old I was put to the carpenter trade under the charge of John Heming’s, the youngest son of my grandmother. His father's name was Nelson, who was an Englishman. She had seven children by white men and seven by colored men—- fourteen in all. My brothers, Sister Harriet and myself, were used alike. We were permitted to stay about the "great house,†and only required to do such light work as going on errands. Harriet learned to spin and to weave in a little factory on the home plantation. We were free from the dread of having to be slaves all our lives long, and were measurably happy. We were always permitted to be with our mother, who was well used. It was her duty, all her life which I can remember, up to the time of father’s death, to take care of his chamber and wardrobe, look after us children and do such light work as sewing, etc. Provision was made in the will of our father that we should be free when we arrived at the age of 21 years. We had all passed that period when he died but Eston, and he was given the remainder of his time shortly after. He and I rented a house and took mother to live with us, till her death, which event occurred in 1835. In 1834 I married Mary McCoy. Her grandmother was a slave, and lived with her master, Stephen Hughes, near Charlottesville, as his Wife—She was maintained by him, which made their children free born. Mary MCCoy's mother was his daughter. I was about 28 and she 22 years of age when we married. We lived and labored together in Virginia till 1836, when we voluntarily left and came to Ohio. We settled in Pebble township, Pike County. We lived there four or five years and during my stay in the county I worked at my trade [as a] carpenter. When we came from Virginia we brought one daughter (Sarah) with us, leaving the dust of a son in the soil near Monticello. We have born to us in this State nine children. Two are dead. All the others are married and raising families.

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Thomas Jefferson’s life, both public and private, remains a subject of widespread historical interest. The personal account provided by his descendant offers unique insights into his domestic life, personality, and relationships that often contrast with the more public image seen in historical records. This narrative reveals that Jefferson, despite his stature as a statesman and President, was a man of quiet, gentle temperament who focused on his work and family. His personal demeanor—kind, even-tempered, and largely undemonstrative—depicts a man more engaged with his immediate surroundings than with grand displays of emotion or political ambition in his private interactions. Such traits highlight the complex character behind the political figure, providing a more nuanced understanding of his personality beyond his public achievements. The account also sheds light on the realities of slavery in Jefferson’s household, particularly through the mention of his children by a slave woman and his relationships with grandchildren, emphasizing the intertwined nature of race, family, and power in the antebellum South. The descendant’s reflections on the health, daily routines, and social dynamics within Jefferson's household deepen our understanding of the personal side of one of America’s founding fathers, illustrating the human dimensions of his life often obscured by history. These personal stories are crucial for comprehending the full scope of Jefferson’s character and the societal structures of his era.

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