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In this week's readings, Shearhouse outlined the satisfaction triangle. Reflect on a recently resolved conflict in your life. Which of the three perspectives was most closely related to your satisfaction? Provide one example of a conflict and then provide three outcomes to that conflict, one for each satisfaction triangle perspective. Identify a personal conflict or one that you are personally aware of that has reached all five levels. If not, identify one that has moved through several of those levels described. Reflecting on your answer (identified conflict) to question three, what advice does the author suggest you could take? Would that be helpful?

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The satisfaction triangle, as outlined by Shearhouse, offers a comprehensive framework for understanding conflict resolution by considering three key perspectives: emotional, cognitive, and behavioral. Reflecting on a recent conflict I experienced, I found that the emotional perspective was most closely related to my satisfaction with the resolution. This paper examines that conflict, explores three different outcomes aligned with each perspective of the satisfaction triangle, and discusses the levels of conflict resolution experienced, along with the advice offered by Shearhouse.

Example of a Recent Conflict

Approximately two months ago, I faced a disagreement with a close colleague regarding project responsibilities. The conflict arose because of overlapping duties and miscommunication about task ownership. Initially, tensions escalated, with frustration mounting on both sides. My primary concern was maintaining a positive working relationship, but I also wanted to ensure that the project progressed efficiently. This situation exemplifies a typical professional conflict with emotional, cognitive, and behavioral dimensions.

Outcomes Aligned with the Satisfaction Triangle Perspectives

Shearhouse's satisfaction triangle emphasizes three perspectives: emotional, cognitive, and behavioral, each influencing the conflict's resolution and personal satisfaction.

  1. Emotional Perspective: The resolution focused on restoring positive feelings and trust. We acknowledged each other's frustrations, expressed understanding, and reassured one another of shared goals. This outcome led to increased emotional satisfaction, fostering a renewed sense of teamwork and mutual respect.
  2. Cognitive Perspective: The outcome involved clarifying responsibilities through a formal meeting where roles were redefined and documented. This outcome satisfied the cognitive perspective by reducing ambiguity and aligning understanding, thus decreasing future misunderstandings.
  3. Behavioral Perspective: The practical outcome was the implementation of a new communication protocol and scheduled check-ins. This behavioral adjustment aimed at changing interactions to prevent similar conflicts, resulting in increased productivity and smoother workflow.

Levels of Conflict Resolution

Reflecting on the conflict, it reached several of Shearhouse’s five levels of resolution: from superficial compliance to genuine understanding and agreement. Initially, the resolution was superficial, with only surface-level apologies and temporary peace. Over time, through open dialogue and mutual effort, the resolution advanced towards genuine understanding and collaboration, fulfilling all five levels—awareness, acknowledgment, acceptance, change, and reinforcement.

Author’s Advice and Its Applicability

Shearhouse advises that effective conflict resolution involves addressing all three perspectives — emotional, cognitive, and behavioral — rather than focusing solely on one aspect. She suggests that enhancing awareness of these perspectives can lead to more sustainable solutions and greater personal satisfaction. Applying this advice to my conflict, I realize that paying attention to the emotional needs and ensuring emotional safety were crucial for a successful outcome. This approach would have been even more helpful early in the conflict, as it might have prevented escalation by fostering empathy and understanding from the outset.

Conclusion

The satisfaction triangle provides a valuable lens through which to evaluate and resolve conflicts. My recent experience highlighted the importance of addressing emotional needs alongside cognitive and behavioral changes. The author’s recommendations underscore that holistic conflict management—considering all three perspectives—is essential for achieving lasting resolution and personal satisfaction. Future conflicts can benefit from this approach, emphasizing the need to balance emotional, cognitive, and behavioral considerations for more effective and satisfying resolutions.

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