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Primary Focus: Body (posture, gesture, facial, eye, touch) Subjects: One woman 40’s, one girl late teens to early 20’s Context: A little after noon at a fast-food sandwich shop in the food court of a shopping mall. Subjects were seated opposite each other in a booth. Because both subjects had shopping bags with them, I assumed they were out on a shopping trip together. Nonverbal Communication Cues Observed: The girl sat sideways in the booth with her feet on the bench and pointed to the outside. Her left arm was resting on the seatback and she kept turning her head away from the woman toward the window only occasionally making brief eye contact. The woman sat facing the table and kept both her hands in her lap most of the time. She did a lot of leaning forward looking at the girl the whole time. The woman’s face was very animated; the girl’s was not. She had a stony look. The girl kept fidgeting with a soda straw and would periodically chew on it. At one point both had stopped speaking and the girl took a big sigh, turned to face the woman, and put her feet under the table. She then started talking in a low voice, so I couldn’t hear the words, but at one point in the talking she reached over and touched the woman’s arm which, by this time, was resting on the table. The woman responded immediately to the touch and gave her hand to the girl and smiled for the first time. They were holding hands across the table when I left. The girl’s face looked more relaxed and almost smiling. Interpretation of Cues Supported by Textbook & Journal Readings: That the woman was seeking to communicate was clear from her using immediacy cues to engage the girl. The evidence is in the forward lean and sustained eye contact. The girl was resisting by showing non-immediacy cues such as not facing the woman, avoiding eye contact, and perhaps neutralizing her emotions with the stony face. The girl’s chewing on the soda straw was a perfect textbook example of an adaptor behavior that suggests nervousness. The situation changed when the girl turned to face the woman and give more eye contact. The girl’s immediacy increased. The girl initiated the arm touch and the woman reciprocated with the same kind of touch. This reciprocal behavior on the part of the woman supports the idea that the girl’s touch was welcomed. The woman’s face was far more expressive during the whole observation. When the girl was turned away, the woman’s face at times displayed the textbook description of sadness, fear, and at least briefly, the face of anger, but this lasted only seconds. The girl appeared to be trying to put on a neutral face, but there were several moments where I saw a flicker of anger. The woman’s face changed the most at a point after the girl turned to face her. Near the end of the observation her face appeared more relaxed. For a moment, the smile of real warmth or humor came through because there was evidence in the upper half of the face; I could see the crow’s feet around the eyes in conjunction with a toothy smile. Other: Because the food court was noisy I heard very few of the words spoken by the two. Based on all the nonverbal cues I observed, I assumed that there had been some disagreement between the two that got resolved by the end of my observation. Because there was some similarity between the two in facial features I guessed that they were mother and daughter, but I have no other evidence to support this. OBSERVATION ASSIGNMENT EVALUATION FORM Note: this page should be included in the front of your folder when you hand it in to the instructor. Name_____________________________________ _______1. Instruction sheet correctly followed. Observations submitted in folder, observations include data under all required bold faced headings, documents are typed, grade sheet is included. Overall presentation is businesslike. ( 5 points possible) _______2. Nonverbal communication cues observed are clearly specified. Writing uses clear, focused, detailed description of nonverbal communication cues. (1 5 points possible) _______3. Interpretation of Cues Supported by Textbook & Journal Readings. Cue interpretation is solidly grounded on the theories and principles covered in the course reading assignments. (15 points possible) _______4. Terminology from the textbook is liberally used in the writing. ( 5 points possible) Note: 10 points will be subtracted for each observation short of the required four observations. Comments: Total score on a 40 point scale:__________ Letter grade __________ 40—36 A 35—32 B 31—28 C 27—24 D 23—0 F

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The nonverbal communication observed between the mother and daughter in this mall food court provides a rich context for interpreting interpersonal dynamics through body language, facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, and touch. Drawing from established theories and principles in nonverbal communication, this analysis explores how these cues reveal underlying emotions, relational status, and the possible resolution of conflict.

Initially, the daughter’s sideways sitting posture with feet on the bench, occasional head turns, and minimal eye contact signal a sense of resistance or withdrawal. According to Mehrabian's communication model, nonverbal cues such as body orientation and eye contact serve as immediacy behaviors, which demonstrate a desire for closeness or distance (Mehrabian, 1971). Her avoidance of facing directly towards the mother, combined with her gaze directed outside, suggests a defensive or disengaged stance, potentially indicating discomfort or disagreement.

In contrast, the mother’s position—facing the table and leaning forward—indicates engagement and an intent to communicate. Her animated facial expressions, including moments of sadness, fear, and anger, align with Burgoon’s Expectancy Violations Theory, which posits that deviations from expected behaviors can signal emotional states or relational tensions (Burgoon, 1978). Her leaning forward and sustained eye contact demonstrate her attempt to connect, showing immediacy behaviors that convey interest and concern. The combination of these cues underscores a dynamic where the mother seeks to bridge a relational gap, perhaps trying to resolve an ongoing disagreement.

The daughter's fidgeting with the soda straw and chewing on it are classic adaptor behaviors in nonverbal communication, often linked to nervousness or unease (Knapp & Hall, 2010). These idiosyncratic gestures serve as self-regulation signals, indicating her internal emotional state. When the daughter turns to face the mother more fully, makes eye contact, and initiates physical touch—touching her arm—there is a notable shift in her immediacy behaviors. According to nonverbal communication literature, such touch is a powerful relational cue that signals trust, receptiveness, and warmth if reciprocated (Field, 2003).

The mother's reciprocation—holding hands and smiling—further reinforces a positive relational exchange that indicates reconciliation or emotional reinforcement (Hall, 1966). The facial cues, such as the emergence of a genuine smile with crow’s feet showing warmth and humor, align with Ekman’s facial action coding system, which associates such expressions with sincere positive emotions (Ekman & Friesen, 1978). The transition from a tense to a more relaxed facial expression suggests a resolution of underlying tension, leading to an emotionally supportive interaction.

The observed behaviors collectively reflect a narrative of relational effort, conflict, and eventual reconnection. The initial signs of resistance, indicated by body orientation and avoidance, transition into warmth and proximity through affectionate touch and relaxed facial expressions. This progression is consistent with the relational dialectics theory, which describes how individuals manage opposing needs—closeness versus distance—within relationships (Baxter & Montgomery, 1996). The daughter’s initial nonverbal resistance and subsequent increased immediacy display her movement towards intimacy and reassurance, facilitated by the mother's responsive behaviors.

Given the context and the nonverbal cues observed, it is reasonable to interpret that these two subjects, likely mother and daughter, experienced a disagreement or emotional tension that was steered towards reconciliation. Their mutual touch and smiling appear to symbolize emotional thawing and acceptance. The facial expressions and gestures support the view that the relationship is adaptive and capable of repair through nonverbal communication cues, reinforcing the importance of body language in maintaining relational health (Burgoon et al., 2016).

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