Homework Post 4: Willpower And Distress Skill Practice Refle

Homework Post 4: Willpower and Distress Skill Practice Reflection

Reflect on a time this week where you practiced using willpower outside of class. Include a response to the following prompts for about 1 page double spaced:

• Describe how you practiced using willpower this week. Were you able to effectively use the skill? How did it change how you felt about the situation? Did it change the outcome?
• Complete a WOOP (Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan) to use more willpower or distress tolerance, focusing on naming an internal obstacle and formulating an if/then plan.
• Wish: Describe a long-term and short-term (next 4 weeks) goal related to your willpower or distress tolerance.
• Outcome: Specify a particular result if you accomplish the wish.
• Obstacle: Identify at least one internal and one external barrier that hinder your use of these skills.
• Plan: Outline strategies to overcome these obstacles, including an if/then statement and specific action steps to ensure adherence.

Reflect on your distress tolerance skills practice during the class activity by reviewing what would be in your crisis survival kit. Your response should be about 1 page double spaced and address the following:

• What items would be in your kit? What resources do you have at home, in your school bag, and on your phone to practice these skills?
• Which areas of distress tolerance come more naturally to you? Which do you need to practice more? Which might not be as helpful?
• Share an experience where you used one of these skills during an intense emotion. Did it work? How might you approach the situation differently now?

Write a half-page about something you did during the week that you're proud of or grateful for.

Reflect on the previous lecture, assigned readings, and videos for next week:

• Identify one aspect from Wednesday’s class that resonated with you, especially from the lecture material.
• Note any questions you still have.
• Describe how the content in the readings might help you in your future.

Paper For Above instruction

Throughout this week, I deliberately applied willpower to manage my impulses and emotions during a challenging situation concerning time management and social commitments. Specifically, I found myself distracted and tempted to procrastinate on studying for an upcoming exam, which could have resulted in last-minute cramming and increased stress. Instead, I practiced willpower by reminding myself of my long-term goal to perform well academically and using self-discipline to stay focused on my study schedule. I set specific boundaries by turning off notifications and placing my phone away, creating an environment conducive to concentration. This effort proved effective; I noticed a decrease in distractions, which allowed me to study more efficiently. As a result, I felt a sense of accomplishment and reduced anxiety, knowing I was proactively handling my responsibilities—this improved my overall mood and confidence in my abilities. Although the outcome was favorable, I recognize that practicing regular willpower enhances my resilience over time.

Applying the WOOP framework, I identified a pressing internal obstacle: self-doubt about my ability to resist temptation when I am feeling overwhelmed. For my wish, I aim to strengthen my willpower over the next four weeks by consistently sticking to my study routines and resisting distractions during study sessions. My specific outcome would be achieving a better grasp of the material and feeling more prepared for my exams. The main external barrier I face is the constant presence of my phone, which tempts me to check social media or messages. Internally, I sometimes feel exhausted or impatient, which diminishes my resolve. To overcome these barriers, I plan to implement a structured study schedule with scheduled breaks and use app blockers to limit phone usage. My if/then statement is: "If I feel overwhelmed or tempted by my phone, then I will take a 5-minute break, practice deep breathing, and revisit my study plan." I will ensure I stick to this plan by setting alarm reminders and keeping my phone in another room during study sessions, establishing accountability through a study partner, and tracking my progress daily.

During a recent class activity, I reflected on my distress tolerance toolkit. I would include items such as calming essential oils, a list of positive affirmations, and a small stress ball. At home, I utilize mindfulness exercises like breathing techniques, while in my school bag, I keep a small journal for grounding exercises. On my phone, I have meditation apps and soothing music playlists. I find that distraction and mindfulness strategies come more naturally to me, helping me manage anxiety effectively. However, acceptance-based skills like Radical Acceptance require more conscious effort, and I sometimes doubt their effectiveness initially. One example of using distress tolerance was during a period of intense frustration when I practiced deep breathing and used the ACCEPTS distraction tool by listening to calming music. These techniques helped diminish my emotional intensity, making me better equipped to handle frustration. Now, I would approach similar situations earlier, perhaps using progressive muscle relaxation or seeking social support sooner, to prevent escalation.

This week, I completed a significant academic project, which I am proud of because I managed my time effectively and maintained focus throughout the process. I am grateful for my support system, including friends and family, who encouraged me when I felt overwhelmed. Recognizing their support reinforced my motivation and made me feel valued.

From the last lecture, one aspect that resonated with me was the importance of mindfulness in emotional regulation, especially its role in distancing oneself from impulsive reactions. I still have questions about how to integrate mindfulness seamlessly into daily routines amidst busy schedules. I believe that incorporating the principles from the readings—particularly the emphasis on acceptance and emotion regulation strategies—will help me handle stress more adaptively, especially during high-pressure situations. Overall, understanding these concepts gives me practical tools to improve my emotional resilience and maintain well-being in my academic journey and daily life.

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