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Leadership and Ministry: It's all about love — Explore how Relationship and Sex Education in Catholic schools can enable young people to develop healthy, life-affirming relationships, addressing relationship-focused RSE, pastoral reality and mercy, critical religious education, safeguarding, and partnership with parents.

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Introduction

Relationship and Sex Education (RSE) in Catholic schools should foreground relationship formation and the moral practice of love. This paper argues that RSE is most effective when framed as relationship education: teaching young people how to love, be lovable, and form healthy, life-affirming bonds. This approach aligns with recent statutory shifts in England that place relationships before sex in the curriculum (DfE, 2019) and reflects long-standing Catholic pedagogical aims to form the whole person (Catholic Bishops’ Conference, 2012; CES, 2017).

Why relationship-first RSE?

A relationship-first emphasis corrects a common imbalance where the sexual act is isolated from the social and moral contexts that give it meaning. The Department for Education’s change of terminology to “Relationship and Sex Education” underscores this priority (DfE, 2019). Theologically, Catholic teaching locates sexuality within committed, loving relationships and sees education as supporting parents in forming virtuous adults (Catholic Bishops’ Conference, 2012; CES, 2017). Empirically, comprehensive, relationship-focused programmes are associated with better sexual health outcomes and improved interpersonal skills (UNESCO, 2018; Kirby, 2007).

Pedagogy: modelling, pastoral care, and critical engagement

Schools are social environments where relationships are learned by example. Teachers’ conduct and school behaviour policies model the relational skills students are meant to acquire (DfE, 2011). Catholic schools that situate relational learning within pastoral care emphasise mercy, forgiveness, and moral growth — a balance Pope Francis stresses in Amoris laetitia (2016). At the same time, religious education must be critical and academically rigorous. The Religious Education Curriculum Directory calls for the development of pupils’ critical faculties so young people can think ethically and theologically (Catholic Bishops’ Conference, 2012). RSE delivered as part of critical RE encourages informed, reflective students who can evaluate Church teaching and societal messages alike (Biesta, 2010).

Curriculum content and classroom practice

A relationship-centred RSE curriculum covers emotional literacy, consent, communication skills, empathy, boundaries, respect, and the interplay of love and sexuality. Teachers should use age-appropriate, evidence-informed resources and create safe spaces for questions (CES, 2017). Techniques such as anonymous question boxes, scenario work, and guided discussion help students engage honestly while protecting privacy (Dell, 2020). Crucially, instruction must not shy from complexity: presenting Church teaching authentically while allowing students to interrogate and understand pastoral responses to real-life situations (Amoris laetitia; Bishops’ Conference, 2012).

Safeguarding and addressing pastoral realities

RSE carries a safeguarding imperative. Catholic schools must acknowledge historical failures in safeguarding and use RSE to empower students to recognise abuse, seek help, and support survivors sensitively (NSPCC, 2019). Open, honest classroom discussion about the harms that can arise from sexual behaviour — and institutional failings — helps rebuild trust and prepares pupils to protect themselves (DfE safeguarding guidance; Dell, 2020). Embedding clear reporting routes and pastoral follow-up within RSE lessons ensures conversations translate into protective action.

Working with parents and the primacy of family education

The Catholic philosophy of education recognises parents as primary educators. Effective RSE therefore involves partnership with families: transparent communication, curricular briefings, and opportunities for parental input (CES, 2017). Engagement should go beyond notification to co-education, empowering parents to continue relational formation at home. Such collaboration builds trust and ensures that school-based RSE complements, rather than supplants, parental guidance (Dell, 2020).

Recommendations for implementation

To implement relationship-centred RSE in Catholic schools, leaders should: 1) adopt a curriculum that places relationships and love at its heart and aligns with statutory guidance (DfE, 2019); 2) train teachers in pastoral pedagogy and safeguarding (DfE, 2011; NSPCC, 2019); 3) commit to critical RE practices that present Church teaching authentically while fostering student critique (Bishops’ Conference, 2012; Biesta, 2010); 4) ensure survivor-informed safeguarding content and clearly signposted support; and 5) build meaningful parental engagement structures to reinforce learning in the home (CES, 2017).

Conclusion

RSE in Catholic schools is most faithful to both educational and ecclesial aims when it is about learning to love. Framing sex education within a broader project of relationship education respects theological convictions, meets statutory expectations, promotes young people’s wellbeing, and addresses safeguarding obligations. When schools model loving relationships, teach critical reflection, partner with parents, and confront pastoral realities with mercy, RSE becomes a transformative part of Catholic formation — preparing students for healthy, responsible, and life-affirming relationships (Dell, 2020; UNESCO, 2018; Pope Francis, 2016).

References

• Dell, M. (2020). Leadership and Ministry: It’s all about love, really — Relationship and Sex Education in Catholic schools. Pastoral Review, Vol. 16 Issue 2.
• Department for Education (2019). The Relationships Education, Relationships and Sex Education and Health Education (England) Regulations 2019. GOV.UK.
• Department for Education (2011). Teachers’ Standards. GOV.UK.
• Catholic Bishops’ Conference of England and Wales (2012). Religious Education Curriculum Directory (3–19) for Catholic Schools and Colleges in England and Wales. Catholic Education Service.
• Catholic Education Service (2017). Learning to Love: An Introduction to Catholic Relationship and Sex Education (RSE) for Catholic Educators. Catholic Education Service.
• Pope Francis (2016). Amoris laetitia (The Joy of Love). Apostolic Exhortation.
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• NSPCC (2019). Child protection in schools: Guidance and resources for educators. NSPCC.
• Kirby, D. (2007). Emerging Answers 2007: Research Findings on Programs to Reduce Teen Pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases. The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy.